Hola Amigo's
I am back from the most humbling and
eye opening experience of my life.
I thought I knew POVERTY and
DESPAIR, but I didn't.
I thought I knew HUNGER but I
didn't.
I thought I knew COURAGE and
DETERMINATION, but I didn't.
I am thankful that I didn't get ill
as some of our people did.
We all need to count every blessing
every single day. We don't know how
good our lives are.
The next time someone grumbles
about something they DON'T have,
tell them about this.
If you have indoor plumbing and
toilet paper, be THANKFUL. If
you have more than ONE single 40
watt light bulb in your whole
home, be thankful. If you have
refrigeration be thankful. If
you can wash your hands, face,
clothes or dishes anywhere near
your home be THANKFUL. If you
have a shower or a bath tub
INDOORS be thankful. If you
don't have to chop wood to heat
water in your home be thankful.
If you have clean underwear more
than once a week, be thankful.
There is so much, But I will
cry.
To give you another example of how
tough they have it, I exchanged
money at the airport when I got
there. Their unit of money is
called a Quetzals. For $100.00
American dollars, I got back $760.00
Quetzals. Gourmet coffee in this
country is usually $8-$15 per pound
in the grocery store. There I got 3
pound bags for $60 Q which is less
than $10.00. So I literally brought
back an empty suitcase of items
which is a HUGE jump-start on my
holiday shopping. Most of my team
and I left all the clothing we took
with us including socks, shoes and
underwear for our three families. I
just kept what I needed to wear
home.
There were 24 of us on this trip
from all over the world. Fumiko,
from Tokyo was the runner-up to this
years Founder's Award and had just
received a visit from the Fishers,
the founders of Gap in her home
store. She is a part-time sales
associate in a Gap store. We also
had Val, from London another amazing
person. The rest of us were spread
from New York to the Midwest to the
west coast. Each of the people on
this trip were so phenomenal and
inspiring with work they had done at
home. It was amazing. It was a mix
of office and field, full time and
part time from Gap, Banana Republic
and of course me, the only Old Navy
person.
Our village was in Sololá, near
Panjahacel, way up in the
mountains. The drive up there is a
whole nother letter. Let me say
chicken buses are scarier than
anything I have ever seen, even in
Mexico. Most of the roads are 2
lane and even high in the mountains
with narrow sides looking way down,
they pass each other in curves
flying and with barely space
between. We were on a big tour bus
which was safer and we had a very
nice driver. It is a 3 1/2 hour
drive up there from the airport and
again a separate experience. They
are building a highway and they
close the roads at 4pm every day for
a hour siesta. If you don't get
past that point before they close,
you sit on the side of the road
backed up 5 miles or more till it is
reopened. It does not open till 8am
in the morning and the wait is
worse. We got lucky going but had
to wait coming back to the airport.
I never once saw any kind of
lighting on these roads and know why
the Habitat people say the roads are
not safe at night. Very high and
very narrow with speeding chicken
buses, you figure it out.
We stayed in a hotel on Lake
Atitlan, which is between two
volcanoes that look like Mt. Rainier
only without snow. Both could be
seen from my room and my terrace.
This was a nice hotel with its own
well supply but we still were
advised NOT to drink water. We were
given plenty of bottled water daily
even for brushing teeth and
gargling. It is the end of the
rainy season and was very cool in
the evenings, and since the hotel
does not have HEAT, we were given
two heavy blankets for the night.
The power went out several times and
hot water was very inconsistent.
Nice cold brisk showers! That wakes
you up. They did have one American
thing that was funny, internet
access was $1.00 American money for
every 30 minutes and they had 2 pc's
on site on wireless. Most people
had blackberry and cell service
(except for Verizon). T-Mobile had
the best service.
Our team was divided into 3 groups.
Each group had a family that we
built for. We were introduced to
the Mason at the site. The Mason
is the experienced builder and
usually someone close to the
family. In our case it was another
brother of the husband. My family
was a mom Isabella age 23, her
husband Ronnie, age 26 and three
children. The little boy is 7 and
was so malnourished that he was
smaller than his 3 year old sister,
and a baby girl 11 months. They
marry early and women are considered
old maids at 20. They received a
Habitat home of 4 rooms. These
houses are made from cement blocks
and have corrugated tin roofs. They
are reinforced for mud slides with
rebar. Guatemalans do not assign
names to the rooms or purposes. This
home has 4 rooms about 6 foot square
and will eventually cost the family
about $7000 US. They will have an
outhouse, a washing tent (a tin roof
cover over a large plastic free
standing double laundry sink)
and maybe a bathing lean-to which
they will have to construct on their
own. These bathing lean to's look
very much like outdoor sauna's.
They have a fire pit and a bucket to
heat water. It makes steam and they
sqat or sit on benches to wash
themselves. For seats in their
bathing tents, they take logs and
split them in half and place across
cement blocks. Some families make
their own furniture which is
amazing.
One house near our work site was a
completed Habitat house and had 3
rooms with a 4 burner apt size
propane gas cook stove. This home
had one bed for 6 people, the stove
and a table. The family sits on
plastic stools or the floor. All of
the belongings were kept in
cardboard boxes stacked in the
larger of the 3 rooms with the bed.
The home actually belonged to the
brother of our owner. The brother
works in the city for 15 days on and
then gets 15 days off. He rents the
house to this brother while he is
gone until theirs is done.
The father of the house works in
Guatemala City which is almost 4
hours away. He works every other day
from 8 to 5. There is no bus that
gets him there in time for work so
he goes every Sunday evening, rents
a room and stays there until the
weekend. He has a motorcycle as
transportation as does a lot of
people even women. (Want to talk
scary, see these passing in between
passing chicken buses on the roads
and they rarely wear helmets) He
works odd jobs in the city on his
days off. He brings in around $500
Q per month. The mom sews from
about 8pm at night when the kids go
to sleep to around 1am and turns out
one jacket or table cloth per
month. Her embroidery is amazing.
She makes about $80 Q per month
because the material and thread is
furnished to her by a middle person
and she is just the talent. They
also have an amazing farm and grow
corn, beans, collard greens and a
fruit that looks like a watermelon
that candy is made from. Their
little son Johnnie became very
attached to me and followed me
around helping me on the site.
As a matter of fact on the last
night I received the Pied Piper
Award because I was just a kid
magnet while I was there. All of
the participants got awards for one
thing or the other. Fumiko got the
Long Distance Award coming from
Japan, one person got the National
Geographic Human Appetizer Award
since she was bitten by a dog at her
work site and one of the guys on my
team got the Mostly Likely to Find a
Place to Nap on the Job and so on.
The awards were all fun and in good
spirit. Luckily there was NO HR
person in our midst. Zero means
Zero means we won't talk about it
after Guatemala. LOL
The closing ceremony was so
uplifting that all of us were in
tears. All of the Habitat people,
all three families and all of our
people met at our worksite. Some of
the family members make cakes and
punch for us (which was the only
time we were allowed to taste food
other that what the hotel made for
us). We opened with a prayer and
speech by Habitat representatives.
Each group was given a Bible and a
picture of us for their family. The
Guatemalans are very religious
people and I had seen several
beautiful churches in villages along
the way. As my groups,
representative, I then had to stand
up in front of everyone and say a
little something to our family and
the whole audience. I thanked them
for allowing us to come and help and
wished them many years of happiness
in their homes. Not a dry eye I
tell ya.
All of the families then read us
letters they had written and thanked
us . By the way this whole thing is
translated as none of the families
speak English. One of the families
(the largest one, mom, dad and 6
kids) gave each team member a post
card which probably cost them
several hundred Q. It will take them
months to earn that back. Again not
a dry eye.
So for those I work with I have new
skills to add to my IDO. I can mix
cement and make mortar, and I know
how to make brackets to hold the
rebar in place. I also know how to
place cement blocks and grove out
the extra cement to make them look
nice. My specialty was taking
the 12 inch rods and bending them
around nails placed in a piece of
lumber to make what looks like a c
bracket. These then get wired to
the rebar to make a frame. I can DJ
and I can barter very very well.
We did have fun too as we went on a
boat ride, went shopping where
bartering is an art form, had a
night out in a local club and held
an awards night with Karaoke. On
the boat trip, I had a local
actually follow me all the way to
the boat and even up the dock
lowering the price as she went
because I was holding an American
dollar in my hand. I kept saying no
gracias as I walked away with her
getting lower and lower until I gave
her the dollar but refused the
merchandise. I discovered on night
three that I can DJ since the DJ
that was hired was sleeping on the
couch during karaoke night. I picked
one song and then just took over
when the DJ fell asleep. It was a
BLAST.
There is so much more that I am sure
I will be remembering more later as
I go though the pictures. I am
looking for ways to try and go back
next year so If I start fund raising
I'll be sure to let you know.
We are all looking for a website to
post the pictures on. I took over
300 and several people took double
that. I will keep you posted.
I feel honored to have been selected
to go and once again I am even more
grateful than ever for all I have
and have cancelled all my
pity parties for things I don't.
Martha